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What Are You Chasing?

As you sit in your home, surrounded by accolades and accomplishments, you can’t help but feel an overwhelming sense of emptiness. Despite all your achievements, something is missing. You crave a deeper sense of purpose and meaning in your life. Sadly, this is all too normal. As athletes and elite competitors, we think success will make us happy and fill that void, so we chase it. However, the truth is, fulfillment is what we need to fill that void.

As human beings, we are wired to seek happiness and fulfillment in life. It’s what drives us, motivates us, and gives our lives meaning. Yet, all too often, we fall into the trap of chasing success at the expense of our own happiness and well-being.

I know this all too well. For years, I pursued success with single-minded determination. I worked long hours, sacrificed my time, and neglected my own needs, all in the name of achieving my goals. For a while, it worked. I achieved a level of success that I never thought possible. But, as time went on, I began to realize that something was missing. Despite all my accomplishments, I wasn’t happy. I felt empty, unfulfilled, and disconnected from the things that really mattered to me.

It was then that I realized that the problem wasn’t with my goals or my ambition but with my approach to achieving them. I had been so focused on external markers of success that I had lost sight of the internal journey that truly leads to fulfillment.

So, I decided to shift my focus from chasing success to chasing fulfillment. And it’s been a journey filled with both challenges and rewards. Here are some of the lessons I’ve learned along the way:

Lesson 1: Fulfillment comes from within

The first lesson I learned is that true fulfillment comes from within. It’s not something that can be achieved by external measures of success, such as wealth, championships, or status. Instead, it comes from living in alignment with our deepest values, passions, and aspirations. It comes from cultivating a sense of purpose and meaning in our lives, and from making a positive impact on the world around us.

For me, this meant reconnecting with my passions and interests outside of work and athletics and finding ways to incorporate them into my daily life. It meant making time for my relationships and hobbies. It meant recognizing that success without fulfillment is ultimately empty and unsatisfying.

Lesson 2: Fulfillment requires vulnerability

The second lesson I learned is that chasing fulfillment requires vulnerability. It requires us to be open to new experiences, to take risks, and to step outside of our comfort zones. It also requires us to be willing to face our fears, failures, and insecurities, and to embrace the lessons they have to teach us.

This was a difficult lesson for me to learn as I had spent so many years trying to avoid vulnerability at all costs. I thought if I was open that I’d look weak. When I began to take more risks and push myself outside of my comfort zone, I discovered a sense of courage and resilience that I never knew I had. I also discovered that the moments of greatest vulnerability were often the ones that led to the greatest growth and fulfillment.

Lesson 3: Fulfillment is a journey, not a destination

The third lesson I learned is that fulfillment is a journey, not a destination. It’s not something that we can achieve once and for all, but rather something that we must continually work towards and cultivate in our daily lives.

This means that the pursuit of fulfillment is not always easy or straightforward. There will be setbacks, challenges, and moments of doubt along the way. However, by embracing the journey and staying committed to our values and aspirations, we can find a sense of purpose and meaning in even the most difficult of circumstances.

Lesson 4: Success comes easier when focusing on fulfillment

The fourth and final lesson is that when you chase fulfillment, you end up naturally finding more success. Having a clear sense of purpose helps one to stay motivated and focused. You have a reason to keep going when things get tough. You are not just chasing a superficial goal; you are working towards something that is meaningful and worthwhile. This sense of purpose helps you to overcome obstacles and persevere through challenges, ultimately leading to higher levels of success.

So, if you’re feeling unfulfilled in your life, I encourage you to take a step back and reflect on what truly matters to you. What are your deepest values, passions, and aspirations? How can you incorporate them into your daily life, and make a positive impact on the world around you? Start chasing fulfillment today.

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